Trust yourself



Learning to trust is one of life's most difficult tasks. How do you trust another when you don't even trust yourself? So it might shock you to know that the first step to earning another's trust is to trust in yourself.


We all know Rome wasn't built in a day, so you can't expect to go all the way from zero to 100! Take gradual steps by relying more on your intuition daily.
Doing this would build on your confidence level and people on the outside will begin to see you for who you are - an individual with integrity that can be relied on.


Written by Olatunde Dawodu

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